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Posted: Friday December 1st, 2006 04:15 pm |
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Gay couple ties the knot in a first for SA
Celean Jacobson | Johannesburg, South Africa
01 December 2006 05:06
Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got married on Friday in South Africa's first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriages legal.
The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal-rehabilitation centre on the south-western coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George.
In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple.
"It was so amazing. So quick and easy. I can't believe it. I am so happy," said Gibbs.
South Africa on Thursday became the first country in Africa, and only the fifth in the world, to legalise same-sex marriages, despite opposition from political parties and religious groups.
The Civil Union Act went into effect a day ahead of the December 1 deadline set by the country's Constitutional Court, which required the marriage law be changed to ensure equality for gays and lesbians.
As some couples began hurrying to make preparations for long-awaited nuptials, jewellery shops, hotels and entrepreneurs were offering "pink wedding" services.
Jacky Mashapu, a spokesperson for the Home Affairs Department, where couples will need to apply for permission to wed, said George had been the site of the first two gay weddings -- Gibbs and Hart at 11am and another one at 2pm. Details of the second one are not yet known.
Mashapu said they were still trying to ascertain how many applications had been made to offices across the country.
In the meantime, Janine Pressman, with the Glorious Light Metropolitan Community Churches in Pretoria, on Friday became the first pastor allowed to perform marriages under the Act. She is expected to marry a Johannesburg couple in a private ceremony on Saturday.
But Gibbs and Halls are not keeping their union secret -- and it would be hard to suppress such excitement.
Too busy partying to answer the phone, the couple's voice-mail message proudly states that they are the first gay couple to get married in South Africa and thanks well-wishers for all the calls.
The couple, who have been together nine years, made headlines last year when they clashed with local church members who objected to their opening their lodge to gay tourists.
The lodge was vandalised five times and in response a gay militant group threatened to destroy the church building. The church later apologised and the couple withdrew criminal charges.
"After all the trouble it was so amazing to be able to do something like this and everyone was so supportive," Gibbs said.
"We have been planning indirectly for this for about eight months but it was only last night that we got confirmation from home affairs that they could do it today," he said.
Gibbs said their wedding was attended by some friends, students he trains and a number of curious onlookers who crowded into the small hall to witness the historic event.
"We couldn't stop people coming in and taking pictures," he said.
He said it was also significant that South Africa's first gay marriage had taken place on World Aids Day -- the happy couple and many of the guests wore red ribbons to mark the day.
"This marriage is not just for Tony and I. It is for all [people living with] HIV/Aids and gay people who have experienced discrimination," he said.
Gibbs said advantages of being married included greater legal protection as well as better medical aid and pension benefits.
But for him, marriage is about much more.
"Marriage means a lifetime commitment. It means to cherish, obey, love, honour. It means through sickness and health. All those relevant words I never thought would be for me," he said. -- Sapa-AP
http://www.mg.co.za/articlepage.aspx?area=/breaking_news/breaking_news__national/&articleid=292038
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Posted: Friday December 1st, 2006 06:59 pm |
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| Wow, now we're even behind South Africa. Now that is sad considering how recently apartheid was the norm there. "United States- land of the not quite as free as South Africa" should be our new motto.
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Posted: Friday December 1st, 2006 11:02 pm |
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Oh my god! That's horrible!
Just think of all those straight marriages in South Africa that will immediately be destroyed! After all, gay marriage is a clear and present danger to real marriage, as dangerous I'd say as Osama Bin Laden with a pilot's license!
We'll see it by the end of next week, I garantee! Straight marriages, rendered null and void and all but destryed by gay marriage, will fall apart by the millions. Good God-Fearing Christian kids, now all without fathers, will suddenly decide that sinning against God by being gay is ok and decide to stop being Straight For Jesus.
It's awful I tell ya! Why can't those liberals just accept the fact that gays aren't like straights? Gays just suddenly wake up one morning and decide to be gay, don't ya know? They're not like Jesus, he was born straight (even though he never married or got a piece).
We've got to end this "gay marriage" threat right now! And once we're done with that threat to our Christian Nation, we can deal with all those minor issues like terrorism and healthcare and the national debt.
Mike.
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Posted: Saturday December 2nd, 2006 11:36 am |
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Good for them, I wish them joy and happiness.
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Posted: Sunday December 3rd, 2006 03:03 am |
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This thread is gay. 
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